Swipe to The Altar: Your 10-Step Roadmap to Finding True Love Online
Non-fiction/self help
Date Published: 8/3/2020
It's so easy to fall in love, but hard to find someone who will catch you. Let me guess - you're a beautiful and intelligent girl, but so far, you haven't got much luck finding true love. This book will show you how to find your true love from online dating. You will no longer be the Instant Noodle and your love life will be transformed forever.
Introduction
Where did all the single,
straight, and emotionally available guys go? In 2019, 45 percent of the US
population, or around 148 million people, were single. We don’t know
exactly what the percentage is for single and emotionally available men, but it
isn’t zero. Why does it seem unfeasible to have one
of them as your boyfriend?
Dating seems to be a Mission Impossible for
women nowadays. Online dating is supposed to make it easier, but in reality,
you either don’t meet up after chatting all week or it turns out later that he
isn’t interested in anything more than one night. Dating experts have written
countless books and made numerous videos on the topic, but either the advice is
too hard to apply in real life, or it’s not specific enough and not broad
enough to cover all aspects of online dating.
The good news is that this book can take you
by the hand and teach you how to walk every single step in online dating; from
downloading the correct app to making him eager to be your boyfriend when you
are ready. You will learn how to create a magnetic online profile and spot the
right guy to go out with. You will discover the foolproof way to get him hooked
past the third date, and I promise you it’s not what you have in mind. You will
develop the powerful mindset that guys find absolutely irresistible and know
what to say word for word in undesirable circumstances. When you are ready for
marriage, this book will reveal the unspoken truth of how to get the proposal
you always wanted, and how to really become the bride, rather than stuck as an
eternal fiancée.
I had always been the most single girl I know
and never thought I would get married one day to an amazing guy. Guys I liked
were either gay, had girlfriends, or they were not interested in me. The few
guys that did approach me to ask me out were either ugly, boring, or players. I
went to a speed dating event in summer of 2014 and encountered more awkward and
weird men than ever before. They just weren’t what I was looking for. I ended
up talking to other female participants about how terrible the event was and
turned it into a career informational interview in the end. My friend
introduced me to online dating, so I gave it a try five years ago at the end of
2014.
I went on more dates than I can remember.
After seeing enough players, casual daters, and people that were nothing like
what they claimed to be, eventually I met this guy that I thought was finally
going somewhere. He ended up breaking up my heart. Now that I look back, he was
full of red flags screaming at me, trying to show me that he wasn’t remotely
the guy I thought he was. I simply couldn’t or wouldn’t see those red flags.
After 41 first dates, I finally met the guy
that later became my husband. I am so glad he was the 42nd, because if he
showed up before I found the correct way to go about online dating, I would
have missed him. I went on those 42 first dates during more than two years’
time and learned the keys to online dating the hard way.
I learned all of these lessons and wrote this
book so you don’t have to learn the hard way. If you want to get married one
day, but find it nearly impossible to find a boyfriend in real life, this book
is for you. If you have thought about trying online dating but don’t know where
to start, this book is for you. If you are back in the dating field after a
divorce or have already tried online dating, but aren’t getting the desired
results you deserve, this book is for you. This book is the last one you need
to read before you say, “I guess online dating just isn’t for me.”
I am going to tell you the brutal truth. Does
your online profile need an update? Are you not attracting high-quality
matches? I can help you navigate the world of online dating, translate the
language of communicating with someone online, and help you realize your worth.
There are a lot of pitfalls in trying to get to know a person online or long
distance. This book will help you recognize mixed signals, understand the best
methods for meeting in person, and give you the tools to approach online dating
with confidence and boldness.
If online dating is completely new to you, I
assure you that if you follow each step and approach it exactly the way I have
outlined, you will be going out with guys that you find attractive. If you have
already tried online dating and they seemed to only be interested in texting
you, I promise that they will ask you out if you follow my methods. If you
stopped using online dating because you always end up with the guy that is
emotionally unavailable, I assure you that you will find it substantially
easier to spot “players.”
However, if you are completely reluctant to
meet with strangers at all, this book is not for you. If you are curious what
online dating is about but you’re not looking for anything serious here, this
book isn’t for you. If you are not resilient enough to be OK with encountering
failure and keep going, this book isn’t for you. If you are not a go-getter and
hope you can do nothing and your future husband will find you, this book isn’t
for you. If you expect online dating to be easy and aren’t willing to put in
the extra effort to follow my guidelines, this book isn’t for you.
In fact, don’t read this book unless
you are interested in having an amazing boyfriend and ultimately get married to
the love of your life. Following the steps and using the text message
suggestions in the book will make guys fall for you, so please only use them if
you are ready to start a serious relationship.
Don’t be the girl that dreams about meeting
the love of her life but doesn’t do anything about it. Be the girl that grabs
this book now, downloads the right app tonight, and goes on the first date by
this Friday. Be the girl that has friends who tell you “Your boyfriend is so
sweet! I can’t believe you met him online.” Be the girl that walks down the
aisle toward the love of her life in front of family and friends.
Are you ready to start now and find your new
love as soon as possible, or are you going to let uncertainty and fear hold you
back? Are you going to show up to holiday parties with your new boyfriend by
the end of the year, or are you going to regret not taking action earlier? Are
you going to be happily married in five years to someone you meet online after
reading this book, or are you going to lie on the bed, waking up in the middle
of the night, wishing you did something different years from now? It is your
choice.
About the Author
Mrs. Q. Warnock, the former Miss Qianlei Li, started her online dating journey in 2014 and found the love of her life at the end of 2016. She has gone on 42 first dates and has got her heart broken multiple times before realizing the right way to go about online dating. She now lives happily with her husband in Northern Virginia.
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